Selman's Perspective-Taking

Selman's Levels of Perspective-Taking

Perspective-taking — the ability to understand that other people have viewpoints, thoughts, and feelings that may differ from one's own — is a foundational component of social cognition and a key developmental achievement of childhood. Robert Selman (1971, 1980) proposed a five-level model of perspective-taking development, arguing that children move through a universal sequence of increasingly sophisticated understanding of self and others.

Assessment Method

Selman assessed perspective-taking using interpersonal dilemma stories — narratives presenting social conflicts in which the characters have different, potentially competing perspectives. The most well-known is the Holly dilemma: Holly is a skilled tree climber whose father asks her not to climb trees after she nearly falls. She later encounters a friend whose kitten is stuck in a tree — only Holly can rescue it. Selman asked structured questions: 'Does Holly's father know why she climbed the tree?' 'What will Holly's father think if he finds out?' Children's responses revealed their level of perspective-taking reasoning.

The Five Levels

LevelNameAge (approx.)Key characteristicExample
0 Egocentric/Undifferentiated 3–6 years Child cannot distinguish own from others' perspectives — assumes others feel and think as they do 'Holly's dad will be happy because I would be happy if my cat was rescued'
1 Social-informational 6–8 years Recognises that others may have different information and therefore different perspectives; cannot yet take both simultaneously 'Holly's dad doesn't know about the kitten, so he won't understand why she climbed'
2 Self-reflective 8–10 years Can think about own perspective from another's viewpoint (recursive); knows others can do the same; still sequential rather than simultaneous 'Holly knows that her dad will think she just wanted to climb, even though she knows she had a good reason'
3 Mutual/Third-person 10–12 years Can step outside both own and other's perspective and consider the situation from an objective, neutral third-person view; holds both perspectives simultaneously 'They both want to do the right thing — from the outside, it's hard to say who's right'
4 Social and conventional 12+ years Understands that perspectives are shaped by broader societal, cultural, and legal systems; can consider how shared social norms affect interpretation 'Society expects children to obey their parents, but also values compassion — both norms are in conflict here'

Links to Social Cognition and Theory of Mind

Selman's framework complements theory of mind (B1550) — both describe the development of understanding that other minds may differ from one's own. Selman's Levels 0 and 1 are broadly parallel to pre-theory-of-mind and basic theory-of-mind stages respectively. Selman adds the higher social cognitive levels (2–4) that theory of mind research has typically not addressed — particularly the third-person and societal perspectives that develop in later childhood and adolescence.

 Key Takeaways

  • Perspective-taking: understanding that others have viewpoints, thoughts, and feelings that may differ from one's own — foundational to social cognition.
  • Level 0 — Egocentric (3–6 yrs): no distinction between own and others' perspectives — assumes others feel as they do.
  • Level 1 — Social-informational (6–8 yrs): recognises others may have different information → different perspectives; still sequential.
  • Level 2 — Self-reflective (8–10 yrs): recursive — knows others can take their perspective. Still not fully simultaneous.
  • Level 3 — Mutual/Third-person (10–12 yrs): can step outside both perspectives to take a neutral, objective view — holds both simultaneously.
  • Level 4 — Social and conventional (12+ yrs): perspectives understood in the context of broader social norms, cultural systems, and legal frameworks.